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What not to say at a work meeting

What not to say at a work meeting

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On the advice of a participant in her communications class, Barbara Pachter came up with a Do-Not-Say List to help businesspeople avoid words and phrases that only serve to undermine their message and image.

Less consequentially, some of these same utterances are at least a contributing factor to the tedium and length of most staff meetings.

Pachter calls them “weak beginnings,” and they include phrases like “I was wondering if perhaps ...” and “May I ask a question?”

Just come right out and ask the question, Pachter advises.

Asked specifically about time-wasters in meetings, Pachter built on the original Do-Not-Say List that makes up Chapter 27 in her book, “The Essentials of Business Etiquette: How to Greet, Eat and Tweet Your Way to Success.”

Phrases like “In my opinion” and “I have something to add” are unnecessary and therefore inefficient, but the main reason to eliminate them from speech is that they “make people sound tentative and unsure,” she says.

But then there are phrases that almost always introduce drawn-out commentary that’s a complete waste of time. If you catch yourself saying “Let’s revisit” or “Just to reiterate,” it’s an upfront acknowledgment that you’re not contributing anything new,” Pachter says.

To be clear, “Some repetition can confirm to another person that you have heard what was said,” she adds. “But in a group meeting, in addition to wasting time, too much repetition can be viewed as one-upmanship — the need to let everyone know that you also knew that information.”

Another phrase that should be used sparingly for efficiency’s sake is “I’m just thinking out loud,” according to Joe McCormack, author of “BRIEF: Make a Bigger Impact by Saying Less.” Though occasionally helpful in brainstorming sessions, generally “this comment opens a floodgate of disorganized rambling that confuses more than it clarifies,” he says.

For productivity’s sake, Chris Szpryngel would ban “We’ve always done it this way” and “When I was at my previous company.”

Although fresh ideas can come from previous experience, overuse of these phrases reveals a stuck-in-a-rut mindset, says Szpryngel, acting dean of Post University’s Malcolm Baldrige School of Business in Waterbury, Connecticut.

Other phrases that are enemies of productivity and progress include “But it’s got problems” and “Whatever the group wants is fine with me,” says Stephen J. Lind, visiting assistant professor of business communication at The Williams School of Commerce, Economics and Politics at Washington and Lee University in Lexington, Virginia.

“Groups often fail to make a decision because they let the perfect remain the enemy of the good,” Lind says.”Most good ideas have drawbacks, but focusing on the negative attributes can paralyze a group from ever realizing the positive ones.”

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